ahead

we are always asked to think ahead. the goal in mind. but how often do we really practice that? even i...have lost that goal that i tried reaching for. and now its more "like a live for the moment" days. but yet. there really isnt much time left. im growing older. going out into the society is soon. time is running out. age is creeping up. but what does the future hold for me? 

and to put thinking ahead into another context. think before u speak. and this too. how often do we really think about the consequences of out speech. what hurt we may inflict. or how the other person would feel about it. and funny enough. its away the hurtful or blunt or necessary things that we are so quick to say out. and too late to take the words back. and yet. the good things we hold in back inside. or take too long to consider if we shld say it that the moment or opportunity has passed. why is that? 

what is the point in saying all those words? to make urself feel good abt urself? to make urself feel superior over others? that means selfishness. because everything is abt "me" and not abt how the other person would feel. but how would that reflect ur upbringing? that ur spoilt? or that ur parents r the same? once again. selfishness. 

but ofcoz we are all human. its normal to say things without thinking. including myself. its smth hard to change. but perhaps...if we start thinking more about others. and less about ourselves. things would be different. sure you may argue u r just being straight forward. take it or leave it. but there is a difference between that. and saying things for the sake of saying it. to have the last say in things. just stop and think. are those words really necessary?

and perhaps. the EQ thing about genders....guys lesser than girls isnt true. that is just a stereotype. coz im pretty sure i know a girl who has about as low as ZERO EQ. at least i didnt say negative.