no regrets

So today I had a 'class' BBQ for the celebration of the completion of my HYP. and by class I mean those who didnt go to NZ. so just 7 of us + the bf.
but that isnt the main point here. 
so after the BBQ, I had a thought. that I am so glad that God answered my prayers when I prayed and hoped that I would be able to get along well with them. Because honestly, I have very little interaction with them and have never had class projects with them before. But who knew, after 3-4 months, we are all pretty happy with each other, no conflicts or what so ever and so many comical memories to fall back on. 

I have no regrets of NOT going to NZ at all. I dont know about the other 6. But I know I dont. Because if I did go, I would have missed out on tons of things. not only would I have missed the chance to get to know the other 6 better, I would have missed out on Ryan's wedding, the recent 'couples retreat' and sending liang zhi off for his studies. And ofcoz not forgetting all the fun of the gym classes and getting more toned with levina. And also all the time spent still getting to know the bf. Sure maybe the people who did go, would say that its a once in a life time thing, But so are the stuff that I would have missed if I had gone. Besides, I did experience this so called 'away from parents/home' thing back during poly days for the internship in China. 
However, I do know that by not going, I managed to also save at least 6-7k and also avoid any potential conflicts in NZ. especially knowing my own nature...there would definitely be unhappiness. except this time it isnt just like between levina and myself or lynn and myself but others and more others. 

So there. No regrets.