countdown to loss

just another day to the loss of freedom. lols. less than a day actually....sighs...the start of school again. with new people, new teachers, new environment, and new subjects....or fairly new la. and luckily there is smth old. lynn. LOLs.

but honestly, im someone who would prefer to stick to my comfort zone and not try new things. =/

this holiday from april to aug, 4 months, i would really like to thank god to all the changes, both good and bad, that he has made in my life. trying out many new things as well such as small things like making kimchi, and bigger things to gg korea with Lders and myanmar mission trip.

all i can do now is speculate on how sch would be for the next two years. SUFFERINGS. but i have already planned ahead. im someone who loves motivations. and my motivation would be to go to a 1 mth long getaway to korea. with whoever is available...ofcoz best would b w Lders agn XD since we three can spazz tgt abt ALL korea related stuff hahahas.

i shall try and blog more now that sch is starting. but im sure that twitter would still end up being more abused. my poor followers.HAHHAS.

and i also havent been updating my food blog =/

new time table, new priorities to be set. HWAITING~

dream queen

i think i have a sleep disorder. since idk when i have been having dreams every single night. multiple dreams....dream within dreams...etc. and it makes me tired when i wake up tt no amt of sleep is really enuf. it is good when i have good and happy dreams ofcoz...coz it wld keep me happy the whole day. bad if it is bad dreams. duh. when i say bad i dont mean like scary ghost whatever. but like realistic scary.like someone dying.

these few days been having lotsa good dreams. mayb tts why its been putting me in a good mood. hahhas. this whole week in fact XD.

lotsa dreams seem to bring back ppl frm the past. HAH. weird but interesting. mayb tts why im in an even better mood coz srsly i feel e past is better than the present and future. accept for Lders and clique 6...e past few 3 yrs were quite a blur and bleh. =x

but living in the past isnt a good thing...it makes my present life look so bleh...and it makes me wish stuffs i knw wont happen. make me feel things i knw tt r baseless feelings. not good at all coz all those feelings that i tried so hard to get rid of is slowly coming back. i knew this would happen sooner or later. but i have always been in denial.

i hate the green monster. i guess over the years no one else would do because they r just not you. =/

kwave concert!

wow i better type this all out here before i forget! lols...as it is i dont even rmb all the songs that were sung alr =(

1.FT island and they sang love love love, hello hello, bing bing bing, barae

2. touch, with rockin the club, today, and idk wad....

3. x-5 with fantasy, the show is over and don't come near me

4. dalshabet with pink rocket, some song and then supa dupa diva

5.teen top with clap man, supa luv, angel?

6.Dae Guk Nam Ah(The Boss) with stumble stumble, admiring boy, and idk alr =/

7.Miss A sang breathe, some english song, some slow song and then you don't know me

8.ukiss sang bingeul bingeul, 0330, everyday, and man man hani

9. 2ne1 sang to anyone, lonely, can't nobody and i don't care

10. big bang first sang tonight, then seungri had two song solo, taeyang had 2 song solo, GDTOP had 2 song solo double bubble and high highand then big bang sang love song and put your hands up?

i really wanna see beast and mblaq live! i hope the next kwave concert would have them inside. and i wanna see like 2ne1 and bb agn and like dbskJYJand FT! whoo~ its always like this after a concert...I miss jonghun so much! like I feel I didn't get to see him enuff bit he cut hair back to his flippy soft kind and he kept flipping his hair too! poor minhwannie! cnt play w e rest during Bing Bing Bing :( the grps like touch,x-5, the boss D-NA n teen top really far exceeded expectations! there were so many look alikes a feel alikes haha like teen top had a guy tt looks like a young ver. of seven. then karam frm the boss was like jaejoong. then touch and x-5 had a 2pm feel but less annoying =x basically it was worth every cent! like 3.5 hrs lor! next time I wanna like go agn...provided they at least haf some main grps I like first...o don't mind rookie grps anymore! hehe XD

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renewal

looking back and reading my previous post makes me feel so guilty about everything. its so funny how a few mths ago i was so blissful...and suddenly i have become hard hearted and did a drastic move...i find myself so scary. sighs...i wonder if im fated to haf this kinda sad life. but i gotta do what i think is right.

on the other hand i got admitted into massey university. a uni that i was so bitter about because of their screwed up system. but then agn when it is offered...without any pride i accepted. guess this kinda matters pride shldnt come in ur way.

its gonna be a hard 2 yrs though. and i hope tt lynn wld be able to help me...otherwise i'd crash n burn on my own. =/ esp maths...which i suck at =/

a new life ahead. with bittersweet changes and renewal. i hope somethings dont change though. like i wld aways haf my Lders w me and my besties. <3

comparisons

comparisons. this is wad people do all the time. compare the good stuff, or the bad. and sometimes compare ourselves to others or others with others. either way. sometimes comparison will put a person down and delude our state of mind.

it will make us start questioning ourselves. and sometimes in a bad way as well. and the effects are as bad.

it could have started or led to things such as envy. and dont get me started on envy. because once it progresses and turns to jealousy things and start to get ugly.

and so who really knows a human heart? sometimes we seem worst than animals. often compared to the loyalty of dogs. everyone is different. and yet somehow the basis are the same. it seems easier to understand others based on their behaviour and thinking. and it seems so clear to us. however, their would be the more cynical ones or the more paranoid ones who would probe ur thoughts and behaviour. because the cynics feel that things are never as they seem. could this be because of their own behaviour and thinking?thats why they think the same applies to others?

so the question is. when do u take things at face value and when can things really not be as they seem?

yes. i compare. i envy. and im cynical. and that equals to disaster brewing in my head.

back from paradise

ok korea is like the new place i dont mind migrating to anymore. aside from like london. LOLS. and besides its always good to marry someone asian rather than an ang moh right? ahahhas plus korea has cheap cheap cosmetics to encourage u to maintain good complexion.

and the food is sooo awesome~! i miss it like soooo much and like the food back home in singapore now seems so fake and lame like nothing compared to korea's original version. and although i miss korean food so much it just doesnt tempt me back here in singapore...

and although we had to walk like mad just to change from one mrt line to another. not like singapore where u just cross over and its the other line alr....and although it was quite tough but it is really good natural exercise man...i mean u can so easily just get ur 30 mins a day exercise just by using the mrt....and suddenly singapore's mrt is so boring and it just doesnt gif me the enthusiasm....like there are no korean celeb adverts arnd or like shopping centres dont play kpop songs and drive u mad...

i wonder how long it would take for me to snap back to reality and get back to normal and get used to the way things are in singapore. i am already thinking abt when and how i can go back there again like REALLY soon! gosh....not enough not enough~ T.T

the final countdwn

just another 8 hrs more and i am on my way to the airport to korea. wow. still feels sureal. and i got all excited abt it on thurs and fri. but today. lols it kinda hyped dwn agn. mayb thanks to the rejection from massey uni....

but then agn who cares abt that shitty uni. wad im bummed out abt is the direction of my life which im unsure abt. its like suddenly frm everything kinda paved to question marks sticking outta my head everywhere....

i wonder how holidaying in korea will b like....would it be not as good as we all expected? or would it be better? both are bad. LOLS.

i wanna eat my pork!!! pork belly, pork skin,

and looks like i will be spending more on others than myself. LOLS. luckily they r paying me =x

time is running out

death. that word always triggers the word "uncertainty" to me. when it hits u it hits u. u just never knw when. i wont say im glad my grams died early. but i think being an emotional crazy person i am, i wld totally bawl my eyes out....so when they did pass away at my very young age of i-can-barely-rmb, i was clueless and didnt really feel a thing actually.

although i do regret tt i cn spend much time w em and my maternal grandma cnt pass down her awesomely yummilicious nonya cooking and hsewife abilities to me.

yes. and it is here. saddens me to think wad are the possibilities that can happen for the next two years.

the news only sunk in and processed slowly in my brain. like hw an ink leak slowly seeps into the pages of papers....before reality struck and i started to play out all the possibilities in my head

i knw myself. or at least this part of it. and it scares me to think if that part that i knw. actually goes and proves itself to me during these 2 yrs.

and so now time is of the essence....between now and the day that may just set us apart for the next 2 years. or at least few weeks first, every single time spent tgt is impt. and yet there are other aims and goals on his mind. its always like this u knw. but prolly wads a priority to me isnt to him. still trying to understand our differences. find similarities amidst our differences.

and now finally all the things that i thought in my head tt im gg to do to prepare for this day and during the 2 yrs....i gotta put into practice.

anyways stupid shit of a uni hasnt gotten back to me yet till nw. really contemplating giving it up alr and just plan on my working...but figured mummy wld kill me if i were to give up e opportunity. so...i guess if i were accepted i cn go do my soul searching ltr on. or nt....

so i wld really like to be given the opportunity to discover my other interests....

i cnt believe tt just another less than 2 weeks and its off to korea. wow. why has the excitement fizzled? but i guess it would re-ignite agn ltr nearer to the date...

oh and mission trip in june. wow. lotsa preperations to be done.

limits and limitations

where are the boundaries in a relationship? there are always grey areas. so where do you draw the line? can you really control one's sexual desires and thoughts? especially when (i dont mean to be biased) guys are the ones who are more of the sort to have temptations in their head. but do we make excuses for them and just accept that "that's just how guys are?" so intentions play a part. your heart and thoughts are the most important in any and all situations. self control.

men are from mars and women are from venus. we are both different and that has nothing to do with our personalities but more of how we are biologically wired. so that leads to conflicts most of the time. sure our personalities play a part. but ultimately it depends on our understanding of the opposite gender that really matters. the patience for each other and to not say things that can aggrevate the situation or make matters worse.

men are wired to compartmentalise but women have everything wired together. maybe because we are the more emotional of the two genders? or maybe it is some other reason.

these are things we all need to learn and cope everday. especially me i guess. prolly i need to stop making it seem like im always at fault. maybe this is a special case. its an extreme case. so my reasons are justified. but really? they always say it takes two hands to clap. so im always learning and try to shift the mindset. but are you doing the same?

and maybe that is where maturity comes in.

korea sparkling~

whoo it is the countdown to korea! i am so excited! let me see....another 21days. exactly 3 more weeks~ whoo. we already paid the deposit and our hotel looks nt bad from pics and the reviews are not bad too....hehehe

levina who has recently gone to bkk in feb has now gone off to HK today for 10 days T.T leaving me and lynn in SG. and then when she comes back another 11 days ltr its off to korea. T.T good life much???

my temper has not been too good lately. lose patience even more easily than ever lately. i wonder why....im growing up to be such a bitch O.O so i hope....but i doubt. but still i hope 3 of us wont quaral when we go over there. lols. otherwise i will just abandon them and let them get lost in seoul. muahahahha. NAH kidding babes. we Lders will stick tgt =)

me and him. we've been having too many quarals too often lately. sobs. really dont like it. and like i said...mayb coz of my loss of patience and growing into a bitch, so mayb its my fault =/ or like wad dom would say. honeymoon period is over.

need a job to replenish my korea trip expenditure. lols. $.$